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Can my best friend be my lover?

March 15, 2013
Can my best friend be my lover?Friendship and love go parallel. There is no friendship without love and there is no love without friendship. If you have a got a best friend opposite in sex and you are feeling some kind of unusual affection with him/her then you might be wondering can my best friend be my lover? Of course it can be possible. However, you need to be very careful in dealing your best friend. Before you express your feelings, it is important to figure out that does your friend feel the same or not. This is because if he or she does not then your friendship might end or shake a little bit. You obviously would not want that.

You need to make your friend realize that you bring out a better person in him. All are not good at doing so and sometimes even a lover cannot successfully do so. But being a best friend, you can and therefore, there are chances that you might be able to win the heart of your friend as a lover.

The presence of friends sure makes life easy. It is a delicate relation that can be damaged by the negligence by even one of the individual. There are many friends around us but we don’t treat all of them in the same way. Sometimes both the friends of the opposite sex are not ready to accept each other as lovers but there comes a time when both are apart from each other they realize how strong bond they had after all. On the other hand, there are some friendships that are not meant to be prolonged as lovers.

Being able to spend time with the one we love is one of the best joys of life. If you want to know the feelings of your close friend, then it is important to test whether the same feelings are present in your best friend or not. Try going out with someone else to see if it troubles your best friend or not. Talk about your new girlfriend or boyfriend and see the reaction. If you know your best friend well, then in no time you will get to realize whether he or she has any such feelings for you hidden in depth or not.

Make sure the following qualities are present in you:
Can my best friend be my lover?
- Keeping secrets is an important part of every relationship. If you keep the secrets of your friend then your friend should keep your secrets too. Good friends don’t discuss people’s matters with others. If you have always been such kind of friend then there might be a chance for you to become your best friend’s lover.
- In each relation, there is always a person who is stronger than the other one. If you are the stronger one then it might be easier for you to become your best friend’s lover as everyone cannot help the weak bridge the gap. If you are the weak one then it might be a problem. Before getting serious it is important to be aware of the other person’s feelings. Also make sure your friend does not love someone else. This can also be painful for the weakest person in the relationship. You need to be sacrificing.
- A best friend always makes you become a better person. If you are good at it, then again your best friend might accept you as a lover.
- If you have got a bunch of other great friends then they might also help you in getting together with your best friend. Arrange a get together and let them take your best friend aside and ask how your best friend would like to see you in a different light. If the response is positive then you can start getting closer. However, if it is not a positive response then don’t worry, you will not be losing your best friend. If not lovers, you can are still best friends. After all, a friend can be more precious than a lover. Maybe after giving a negative answer, your best friend starts to get attracted towards you. So don’t lose hope in any case.

Another thing that you can try is to make your friend realize that friendship is the first step to become lovers. Even lovers need to become best friends first in order to successfully maintain and prolong their relationship. In order to make a relationship grow, it is important that all critical components of friendship are present in it. You cannot have a healthy love relationship without a committed friendship. If you enjoy being with someone the most in this world and that person is your best friend then believe me you will be living a great marriage life with him or her. All you have to do is make your best friend realize all these aspects. Because without realization, you can never make your best friend change his or her thinking about you. And changing the thinking of a person is the hardest thing to do in this world.

Both of you might also need psychological space to realize the importance of each other. Try to be a part from your friends for a few days and see what kind of reaction is produced. However, don’t make him or her feel that you have replaced them. That can ruin your relationship forever. Again, you will have to be extremely careful. Like I said, if you love someone, let them go, if they come back, they are yours. You need to follow the same rule here.

If you don’t think anything is working, then the best advice is to just tell them how you feel. You might have to take the biggest risk of your life but it will be worth it in the end. If your best friend is wise, then he will never let this ruin or end the friendship relation even if things don’t work out. That’s because our best friends know we can’t live without them and nothing can be much more painful than losing a great friend.

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