|Welcome to HongKongFriend.com|
Meeting Friends in Hong Kong has always been a difficult task for many busy single professionals. As more and more people tend to put more time in studies and career, their network of potential dating or activity partners quickly diminishes in an alarming rate. As a result, the appearance of social networking services serves as a important tool to quickly and conveniently meet new friends from different places and career backgrounds... perhaps ultimately finding the one most important friend of lifetime.
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(1) Can my best friend be my lover?
Friendship and love go parallel. There is no friendship without love and there is no love without friendship. If you have a got a best friend opposite in sex and you are feeling some kind of unusual affection with him/her then you might be wondering can my best friend be my lover? Of course it can be possible. However, you need to be very careful in dealing your best friend. Before you express your feelings, it is important to figure out that does your friend feel the same or not. This is because if he or she does not then your friendship might end or shake a little bit. You obviously would not want that.
(2) Friends, the one who loves you when you are not lovable
It is a well said quote that friendship has the power to multiply what’s good and divide the evil. If you have got honest friends, then you have got everything in this world. This truly describes the importance of friendship in life. Friendship is a priceless gift which is a blessing indeed. Friendship develops when two people share strong attachment and bond, mutual understanding, respect and trust for one another. It is the only relationship that can stand against all the ups and downs of life. True friends truly know you more than yourself.
(3) Single Girls In Hong Kong – Why are their numbers rising?
In every civilization in the past, a great disparity of numbers between men and women are usually observable. Women are usually plentiful than men, this is because men usually die young in battles and men are usually prone to life threatening diseases like tuberculosis and cancer. Death from health hazards are greatly influenced by man’s behavior like smoking, drinking alcohol, rough sports and staying out late. In the present peace time, first world nations like Hong Kong have seen this kind of female to male disparity on another level. Hong Kong Females have grown increasingly weary because the number of males has become sparser by the year. Social experts believe that such disparity may stem from these basic factors of the Hong Kong society:
(4) Best friend-The first and forever true love of your life
If you have got a best friend then you are one of the luckiest people in this world. Finding an honest friend who will stick by your side without any selfish mean is a real blessing. Just like finding true love, finding a true friend seems to be a nerve wracking task. Friendship is based on honesty, loyalty, integrity and respect. Sure sarcasm is a part of the routine but too much offensiveness can kill the relationship.
(5) A Look into How the Girls in Hong Kong Perceive Love
The perception of love varies in terms of geography and demography. The cultural differences among people greatly influence how they perceive love and marriage, and so holds true for Hong Kong too. Hong Kong is located on the South East Asian peninsula where there is an inter-marriage of Chinese, Malay, Indo and Indian culture. Hong Kong was also under the British rule for more than a century before it was returned back to China in 1997.During the British occupation, a number of Britons indulged in inter-marriage with the Chinese and permanently stayed in Hong Kong, which is why it is quite noticeable that Hong Kong women speak English more fluently in British accent than their Chinese descendants. Hong Kong being traditionally Chinese has great European influence because of the British colonial rule.
HongKongFriend.com is a unique matching service that brings together the concept of Board Gaming with Speed Dating.
Online Dating, allows anyone to to meet new friends through the web.
This type is suitable for:
- people who wish to meet a person in other locations or countries
- people who do not want to be seen immediately or directly (due to shyness or inconvenience)
- Busy people who do not have time and resources to to join local events
Speed Dating, is a matchmaking social event (group dating), where a group of usually 15-30 males will be arranged to talk to other 15-30 females, in a 5-7 minutes one-to-one individual talking session.
This type is suitable for:
- people who can join local events
- people who wish to see the physical presentation of other candidates immediately
- people who wish to meet a large number of people at once, thereby to pick the best who meets self-requirements.
Due to the constant increase of single young professionals, the idea of Speed Dating and Online Dating in Hong Kong has widely accepted nowadays. More and more people seek opportunities to meet people outside their study or working environment, and thereby the necessity of Online Dating and Speed Dating.
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|Finding a lover for lasting love-why compatibility is the main key.|
Love is a part of our daily lives as human beings. At least, each one of us loves someone or something even though intimacy may not be present. A lover is basically someone you take great pleasure in and enjoy their presence. It usually refers to someone with whom you share affection and in most cases have a sexual relationship. Finding a lover can be hard, and we shall analyses what makes the best choice when it comes to choosing a person for lasting love.
Finding a lover can be challenging to some people and easy for others. It all depends on the qualities we are looking for in a person. Some people are choosy while other would gladly accept anyone who comes along as a result of desperation.
Most men are attracted to the physical qualities and characteristics of a woman. This obviously gives some women an advantage over the rest. However, as age progresses, the mortal attributes that were once attractive to many fade away and if a man made a choice solely based on physical appearance without considering character and other factors, he finds himself dissatisfied in the relationship which most often leads to cheating or a breakup.
Some women will also go for the physical appearance and the financial stability of the man. These are both factors that may not necessarily remain constant. This may result in dissatisfaction in the relationship and as a result a breakup.
People use a number of ways to find their desired partner. This includes online dating sites, attending social events, going for blind dates and meeting new people. Most people experience problems while trying to find the right person. In some cases, the other partner is either interested in their financial resources or sex. This has caused a lot of heart breaks, which play a role in the attitude of the individual when it comes to finding the right person. Various stereotypes have emerged as a result of painful experience, and it has become a norm for people to say they cannot date coming from a certain place, race or culture.
This perspective is, however, misinformed as one wrong choice does not necessarily represent the population of available suitors. Having this in mind, it is important to analyse some mistakes that people make when choosing a partner in the early stages.
One of the major mistakes' people make when looking for a lover, is over eagerness and lack of patients in getting to know the person. Most people who have ended up with painful incidences of the heart break do not take their time to get to know the person they intend to get intimately involved with. This, for example, may lead to a number of things, including rushed sexual involvement that may not be centred on love. This is a clear case of one person taking advantage of the other and manipulating their emotions.
To avoid this mistake it is important to get to know a person first before getting physically or sexually involved with them. By taking your time you will get to learn what the person intends in your relationship. If the other person is bent on engaging in sexual activity very early in the relationship, one should take time to find out about their past relationships. This will help avoid a situation whereby; one party is led to believe they are loved while, in essence, they are being used for sexual intrigues.
Other mistake people make is rushing to form a relationship, and long-term commitment in the form of marriage. Marriage should only come after the two people in the relationship know each other well and for long enough. When most people rush into marriage as a result of desperation caused by previous failed attempts, advanced age or pressure from relatives or friends, they might find themselves trapped in a situation that did not expect. If the partner they have married was pretending all along through dating, then a great problem arises when the person realizes they cannot comfortably bear with their partner’s character.
Why compatibility is the main key
Compatibility basically refers to the ability of people to successfully exist together. This is in reference to their ideas, habits, religion and character. For any two people to live in harmony, they must share some interests and ideals. When searching for a lover, it is of vital importance to ensure you find a person who easily understands you. This will go a long way in preventing problems that may arise as a result of arguments and intolerance.
A compatible partner is one who easily associates with your beliefs and has a character that is acceptable to you. For example, you should not get into a relationship with a drug trafficker if you value the law. This is because your interests are in clear conflict with those of the other individual. In cases where people choose to ignore the issue of compatibility, the result is often that of regret. This is unless one of the partners chooses to adjust to suiting the character and ideals of the other.
It has been shown through research that relationships that are based on friendship tend to last longer. This is the main secret to successful relationships. You will find that most of your friends are individuals you value and can easily interact with. When it comes to choosing a lover, it is advisable to make sure that friendship is the main basis of your relationship. If you are able to become close friends with the person of interest, it is highly likely that your relationship will succeed.
In conclusion, compatibility should be the prime test before choosing a lover for lasting love. By pursuing friendship with the other person first, you will be able to determine whether or not you can have a loving relationship with them. Failure to take the time to learn about a person usually leads to break up and consequential heart breaks where a mistake has been made in choice due to incompatibility of the two individuals.